In the presentations of All About Love, the most important aspect in dealing with love is honesty, romance, and commitment. Honesty is important in a relationship because it is what holds our integrity and how the relationship builds with trust. People disregard the the fact that honesty is the best policy. "Men tend to lie more than women" and "Women lie to gain power", these quote explains a lot about how relationships these days consist of. Men tend to neglect the fact that lying doesn't only hurt women, but it would automatically mean that they would have to fight really hard to regain back trust. And to the women who lie to gain power, they forget about how if your lover really loves you, he would not love your for your lies but who your are. Lying to gain power just means that your relationship is just a lie.
I found the Romantic Love chapter important because society nowadays tend to not see what love is and they should know what love is about. Most people disregard the fact that love is what two people feel for in their hearts and not sex. Couples these days they tend to think that a relationship is all about sexual intercourse. Instead, they should think about how two people should get to know each other more, learn more of each other and not to be afraid to tell each other the truth. The Romantic Love chapter teaches us that with trust, communication, and respect gives us a great relationship.
Lastly, in the commitment chapter, i found it very important because without commitment, what is love? I think that most people forget that commitment takes an important role in love. The quote, "If you don't love yourself, how do you expect to love someone else?" says it all. If you don't have self esteem then it would be difficult in loving someone else. It takes a lot to love someone, but commitment isn't just a little thing, it play a huge role in a relationship. Two people need to stay committed and learn how to accept themselves and everything around them to love another.
You refer to some powerful quotations that really support your perspective!
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